A good relationship doesn’t require any deliberate attempts to probe.

Many people in their interactions with the opposite sex are extremely lacking in a sense of security, and always like to test the sincerity of the other party in various ways. They deliberately act coldly, deliberately lose contact, and act unreasonable to verify the love. They repeatedly consume the emotions, making the simple interaction become exhausting and complicated.

True love is never tested out; it is felt through daily interactions. Frequent testing is essentially inner anxiety and unease. It not only cannot verify the true love but also makes the other party feel tired, gradually eroding the initial enthusiasm and love.

A reliable relationship is honest and reassuring. Love does not need to be guessed, the heart does not need to be tested. Interaction is open and mutual trust. Have doubts, communicate well; have unease, speak frankly. Compared to deliberately testing, sincere communication is the best way to maintain the relationship.

The truly suitable couple has a relaxed and open interaction, without suspicion or pulling apart. Let go of the thought of testing, learn to trust each other, exchange true love with true love, and be honest throughout your life. Only in this way can the relationship be stable, long-lasting, warm and healing.