Should one chat with a girl every day when pursuing her? The frequency of chatting when pursuing a girl

Many boys tend to fall into two extremes when pursuing girls. Either they bombard the girl with messages frequently every day, or they do nothing and just keep up the superficial contact without taking any initiative to maintain it. In fact, the core of pursuing a girl is not the number of chats, but the quality of the chats. The wrong frequency can easily break the connection.

During the initial stage of pursuing someone, there is absolutely no need to deliberately engage in meaningless small talk every day. Frequent and meaningless greetings, repeated good morning and good evening messages, will gradually cause the girl to develop aesthetic fatigue and social pressure, and even generate a resistant mentality, deliberately avoiding your messages.

The correct frequency of chatting should be moderate and balanced, with both parties responding and initiating conversations. At the beginning, you can proactively start a conversation every other day, sharing interesting daily life experiences and content that aligns with her interests, without getting too involved or sending too many messages. If the other person responds positively and is willing to initiate a conversation, gradually increase the frequency of chatting.

The core of chatting when pursuing a girl is two-way interaction, not one-sided repetitive harassment. Maintain a comfortable connection rhythm. When the conversation is interesting, talk more; when the atmosphere is dull, end it appropriately, and retain freshness and blank space. Stable and comfortable interaction is more likely to bring the distance between you closer and touch the other person.